$(3)解:∵直线CF为⊙O的切线$
$∴∠MCF=90°$
$又∵∠OMC=∠CMF$
$∴Rt△OMC∽Rt△CMF$
$∴\frac {OM}{CM}=\frac {MC}{MF}$
$即\frac {3}{5}=\frac {5}{MF}$
$解得MF=\frac {25}{3}$
$∴OF=\frac {16}{3}$
$∴F(\frac {16}{3},0)$
$设CF函数表达式为y=mx+n$
$将点C(0,4)、F(\frac {16}{3},0)代入y=mx+n得$
$\begin{cases}{0=\frac {16}{3}m+n}\ \\ {4=n\ } \end{cases}$
$解得\begin{cases}{m=-\frac34}\ \\ {n=4\ } \end{cases}$
$又∵y=-\frac14x^2-\frac32x+4=-\frac14(x+3)^2+\frac {25}{4}$
$∴抛物线顶点P(-3,\frac {25}{4})$
$经检验,点P(-3,\frac {25}{4})在直线CF:y=-\frac34x+4上,即直线CF经过抛物线的顶点P$