解:$(1)\triangle ABC$是直角三角形,理由如下:
由题意,得$AC = 10×1 = 10(\mathrm {km})$
又$AD = 2\ \mathrm {km},$∴$CD = AC - AD = 8\ \mathrm {km}$
∵$BD\perp AC,$∴$∠BDA=∠BDC = 90°$
在$Rt\triangle BDA$和$Rt\triangle BDC$中,$BD = 4\ \mathrm {km}$
由勾股定理,得$AB^2=AD^2+BD^2=2^2+4^2=20\ \mathrm {km}^2,$
$BC^2=BD^2+CD^2=4^2+8^2=80\ \mathrm {km}^2$
又$AC^2=10^2=100\ \mathrm {km}^2$
∴$AB^2+BC^2=AC^2,$即$\triangle ABC$是直角三角形
$ (2)$不存在,理由如下:由题意,得$CM = t\mathrm {km}$
∵$N$是$CM$的中点,∴$CN=\frac 12CM=\frac 12\ \mathrm {t}\mathrm {km}$
由$(1),$得$CD = 8\ \mathrm {km},$$∠BDA=∠BDC = 90°$
则$DN = CD - CN=(8 - \frac 12\ \mathrm {t})\mathrm {km},$$MD = CM - CD=(t - 8)\mathrm {km}$
∵$BM = BN,$$BD\perp AC$
∴$MD = DN,$即$t - 8 = 8 - \frac 12\ \mathrm {t},$解得$t=\frac {32}3$
∵$0<t\leqslant 10,$且$\frac {32}3>10$
∴不存在$t $的值,使得$BM = BN$