解:在$Rt\triangle ABD$中,$AB = 6dm,$$AD = 9dm,$由勾股定理,得$BD^{2}=AD^{2}-AB^{2}=9^{2}-6^{2}=81 - 36 = 45dm^{2}。$在$\triangle BCD$中,$BC = 3dm,$$CD = 6dm,$$BC^{2}+CD^{2}=3^{2}+6^{2}=9 + 36 = 45dm^{2}=BD^{2},$所以$\triangle BCD$是直角三角形,且$\angle BCD = 90^{\circ},$即$BC\perp CD。$则该婴儿车符合安全标准。