解:由$y=\sqrt{x-8}+\sqrt{8-x}+18,$得
$\begin{cases}x-8≥0\\8-x≥0\end{cases},$解得$x=8,$则$y=18$
化简$M$:
$M=\frac{x+y}{\sqrt{x}-\sqrt{y}}-\frac{2xy}{x\sqrt{y}-y\sqrt{x}}$
$=\frac{x+y}{\sqrt{x}-\sqrt{y}}-\frac{2xy}{\sqrt{xy}(\sqrt{x}-\sqrt{y})}$
$=\frac{(x+y)\sqrt{xy}-2xy}{\sqrt{xy}(\sqrt{x}-\sqrt{y})}$
$=\frac{(\sqrt{x}-\sqrt{y})^2\sqrt{xy}}{\sqrt{xy}(\sqrt{x}-\sqrt{y})}$
$=\sqrt{x}-\sqrt{y}$
代入$x=8,$$y=18,$$M=\sqrt{8}-\sqrt{18}=2\sqrt{2}-3\sqrt{2}=-\sqrt{2}$
化简$N$:
$N=\frac{3\sqrt{x}-2\sqrt{y}}{\sqrt{x+y}+\sqrt{y-x}}$
代入$x=8,$$y=18,$
$N=\frac{3\sqrt{8}-2\sqrt{18}}{\sqrt{8+18}+\sqrt{18-8}}=\frac{6\sqrt{2}-6\sqrt{2}}{\sqrt{26}+\sqrt{10}}=0$
$∵-\sqrt{2}<0,$即$M<N$
$∴$乙同学的说法是正确的