解:$(1)$设$\frac {x}{2}=\frac {y}{3}=\frac {z}{6}=k$,
则$x=2k$,$y=3k$,$z=6k$
$ $将其代入$\frac {x+2y-z}{x-2y+3z}$,得
$ \frac {2k+2×3k-6k}{2k-2×3k+3×6k}=\frac {2k+6k-6k}{2k-6k+18k}=\frac {2k}{14k}=\frac {1}{7}$
$ (2) $设$\frac {y+z}{x}=\frac {z+x}{y}=\frac {x+y}{z}=k$,
则
$\begin {cases}y+z=kx&①\\z +x=ky&②\\x +y=kz&③\end {cases}$
①+②+③,得$2x+2y+2z=k(x+y+z)$
$ $因为$x+y+z≠0$,等式两边同除以$x+y+z$,
得$k=2$
$ $所以$x+y=2z$
$ $将$x+y=2z$代入$\frac {x+y-z}{x+y+z}$,得
$ \frac {2z-z}{2z+z}=\frac {z}{3z}=\frac {1}{3}$