解:
(1)
∵ 直线AB,CD相交于点O,
∴ $∠ BOD = ∠ AOC = 80°,$
又
∵ $∠ BOE$与$∠ EOD$的度数之比为$3:5,$
∴ $∠ EOB = \dfrac{3}{3+5} × ∠ BOD = \dfrac{3}{8} × 80° = 30°。$
(2)
∵ $OF ⊥ OE,$
∴ $∠ EOF = 90°,$
分两种情况:
① 当射线OF在直线AB上方时,
$∠ BOF = ∠ EOF + ∠ BOE = 90° + 30° = 120°;$
② 当射线OF在直线AB下方时,
$∠ BOF = ∠ EOF - ∠ BOE = 90° - 30° = 60°。$
综上,$∠ BOF$的大小为$60°$或$120°。$