(1)解:$\triangle BDE$是等腰三角形.
理由如下:$∵BD$平分$∠ABC$,$∴∠ABD=∠CBD$.
$∵BC// ED$,$∴∠EDB=∠CBD$,
$∴∠EDB=∠ABD$,$∴EB=ED$,
$∴\triangle BDE$是等腰三角形.
$(2)①B$
②解:由(1)可知,$∠ABE=∠EBG=∠AEB$,$AB = AE = 3$.
$∵AF\perp BE$,$∴∠BAF=∠EAF$.
$∵BC// AD$,$∴∠EAG=∠AGB$,
$∴∠BAF=∠AGB$,$∴AB = BG = 3$.
$∵AB// FD$,$∴∠BAF=∠CFG$.
$∵∠AGB=∠CGF$,$∴∠CGF=∠CFG$,$∴CG = CF$.
$∵CG = BC - BG = 5 - 3 = 2$,$∴CF = 2$.