$ (1) $证明:∵$BD,$$CE$是$\triangle ABC$的高
∴$∠ADB=∠AEC = 90°$
$ $在$\triangle ABD$和$\triangle ACE$中
$ \begin {cases}∠ADB=∠AEC\\AD = AE\\∠A=∠A\end {cases}$
∴$\triangle ABD≌\triangle ACE(\mathrm {ASA})$
$ (2)$解:$ ∠1=∠2$
理由:∵$\triangle ABD≌\triangle ACE$
∴$AB = AC,$$∠ABD=∠ACE$
又∵$AB = AC,$∴$∠ABC=∠ACB$
∴$∠ABC-∠ABD=∠ACB-∠ACE,$即$∠1=∠2$