$解:(1)易知,抛物线顶点P(6,6),M(12,0)$
$设y=a(x-6)^{2}+6,代入M求得a=-\frac {1}{6}$
$∴y=-\frac {1}{6}(x-6)^{2}+6$
$(2)代入x=2得y=\frac {10}{3}$
$则应限制为\frac {10}{3}-\frac {1}{3}=3(\mathrm {m})$
$(3)设A(m,0),则B(12-m,0),C(12-m,-\frac {1}{6}m^{2}+2m),D(m,-\frac {1}{6}m^{2}+2m)$
$则AD+DC+CB=-\frac {1}{3}(m-3)^{2}+15$
$∴可见当m=3时,支撑架最大值15米$