解:
$ (1) $设直线$AD$的解析式为$y=kx+b,$
$ $将$A(\frac {4}{3},\frac {5}{3}),$$D(0,1)$代入解析式,得
$ \begin {cases}b=1\\\frac {4}{3}k+b=\frac {5}{3}\end {cases},$
$ $解得$\begin {cases}k=\frac {1}{2}\\b =1\end {cases},$
$ $所以直线$AD$的解析式为$y=\frac {1}{2}x+1。$
$ (2) $设直线$AD$与$x$轴交于点$B,$
$ $当$y=0$时,$\frac {1}{2}x+1=0,$
解得$x=-2,$则$B(-2,0),$$BO=2。$
$ $对于直线$y=-x+3,$
当$y=0$时,$x=3,$
则$C(3,0),$$OC=3,$
$ $所以$BC=3-(-2)=5。$
$ $四边形$ADOC$的面积$=S_{△ ABC}-S_{△ BOD}$
$ =\frac {1}{2}×5×\frac {5}{3}-\frac {1}{2}×2×1$
$ =\frac {25}{6}-1=\frac {19}{6}。$