解:$(1)\begin {cases}x+y=-7-m&①\\x -y=3m+1&②\end {cases},$
①+②得:$2x=2m-6,$∴$\boldsymbol {x=m-3},$
①-②得:$2y=-4m-8,$∴$\boldsymbol {y=-2m-4},$
$ $故方程组的解为$\boldsymbol {\begin {cases}x=m-3\\y =-2m-4\end {cases}}。$
$ (2) $∵$x≤0,$$y<0,$
∴$\begin {cases}m-3≤0\\-2m-4<0\end {cases},$
$ $解第一个不等式得$m≤3,$
$ $解第二个不等式得$-2m<4,$$m>-2,$
∴$\boldsymbol {-2<m≤3}。$
$ (3)$不等式$2mx+x<2m+1$可化为$(2m+1)x<2m+1,$
∵原不等式的解集是$x>1,$
∴$2m+1<0,$解得$\boldsymbol {m<-\dfrac {1}{2}},$
又∵$-2<m≤3,$
∴$-2<m<-\dfrac {1}{2},$
∵$m $为整数,∴$\boldsymbol {m=-1}。$