(1)证明:
$\because$ 四边形$ABCD$是菱形,
$\therefore AB=AD,$$∠ B=∠ D,$
$\because AE⊥ BC,$$AF⊥ CD,$
$\therefore ∠ AEB=∠ AFD=90°,$
在$△ ABE$和$△ ADF$中,
$\begin{cases}∠ AEB=∠ AFD \\∠ B=∠ D \\AB=AD\end{cases}$
$\therefore △ ABE≌△ ADF$(AAS),
$\therefore AE=AF。$
(2)解:
$\because ∠ B=60°,$四边形$ABCD$是菱形,
$\therefore ∠ BAD=120°,$$AB=BC,$
$\because AE⊥ BC,$$AF⊥ CD,$由(1)知$△ ABE≌△ ADF,$
$\therefore ∠ BAE=∠ DAF=30°,$
$\therefore ∠ EAF=∠ BAD - ∠ BAE - ∠ DAF=120°-30°-30°=60°,$
又$\because AE=AF,$
$\therefore △ AEF$是等边三角形,
$\therefore ∠ AEF=60°。$