证明:$\because AB=AC,$$AD$是边$BC$上的中线,
$\therefore AD$垂直平分$BC,$
$\therefore EB=EC,$$FB=FC,$
$\because CF// BE,$
$\therefore ∠ BED=∠ CFD,$$∠ EBD=∠ FCD,$
$\because DB=DC,$
$\therefore △ EBD≌△ FCD,$
$\therefore EB=FC,$
$\therefore EB=BF=FC=EC,$
$\therefore$四边形$BECF$是菱形。