证明:(1)$\because$ 四边形$ABDE$是平行四边形,
$\therefore BD// AE,$$BD=AE。$
$\therefore ∠ ACB = ∠ CAE。$
$\because AB = AC,$$\therefore ∠ ABD = ∠ ACB。$
$\therefore ∠ ABD=∠ CAE。$
在$△ BAD$和$△ ACE$中,
$\begin{cases}AB=CA, \\∠ ABD=∠ CAE, \\BD=AE,\end{cases}$
$\therefore △ BAD≌△ ACE$
(2)如图,过点$A$作$AG⊥ BC,$垂足为$G。$
设$AG=x(x>0)。$在$\mathrm{Rt}△ AGD$中,$\because ∠ ADC=45°,$$\therefore ∠ DAG=45°=∠ ADC。$$\therefore DG=AG=x。$
在$\mathrm{Rt}△ AGB$中,$\because ∠ ABD=30°,$$\therefore BG=\sqrt{3}x。$
又$\because BG-DG=BD,$$BD=10,$
$\therefore \sqrt{3}x - x=10,$解得$x=5\sqrt{3}+5。$
$\therefore AG=5\sqrt{3}+5。$
$\therefore S_{□ ABDE}=BD· AG=10×(5\sqrt{3}+5)=50\sqrt{3}+50$