(1) 证明:在$△ AOB$和$△ DOC$中,
$\begin{cases}∠ ABO=∠ DCO, \\OB=OC, \\∠ AOB=∠ DOC,\end{cases}$
$\therefore △ AOB≌△ DOC(\mathrm{ASA}),$
$\therefore AO=DO。$
$\because E,F$分别是$AO,DO$的中点,
$\therefore OE=\frac{1}{2}AO,$$OF=\frac{1}{2}DO,$
$\therefore OE=OF。$
(2) 证明:$\because OB=OC,$$OE=OF,$
$\therefore$ 四边形$BECF$是平行四边形,$BC=2OB,$$EF=2OE。$
$\because ∠ ABO=90°,$$E$是$AO$的中点,$∠ A=30°,$
$\therefore ∠ AOB=60°,$$BE=\frac{1}{2}AO=OE,$
$\therefore △ BOE$为等边三角形
$\therefore OB=OE,$
$\therefore BC=EF,$
$\therefore$ 四边形$BECF$是矩形。