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“What do you think I should do?” asks your friend, as she sits beside you, waiting for your advice. This is no easy situation. Say something your friend disagrees with or something helpless, and you might feel you've disappointed her.
It's human nature to want to offer solutions when someone comes to you with a problem. It's also easy to fall into the trap of simply saying that “Everything will be OK”. 1 But we often say that because we believe we need to say something. This is because we're glad that our friend has come to us for help, even if we don't really think we're able to give it. 2 The answer is yes... if it's done in the right way.
In fact, friends often really only want someone to listen to them. It's important to try to work out whether they're actually asking for advice, or simply wanting to talk over whatever is going round in their head. 3 There's no harm in asking whether they'd like you to give suggestions.
It's also important to be honest. If you're unable to think of a way to solve your friend's problem, just say so. Your friend won't feel upset, and you can still listen carefully and try to put yourself in their shoes. 4 You can ask yourself “What would I do if I were to experience the same thing?” Later you can go back to your friend with a few helpful suggestions.
5 It can be hard to listen to your friend going over and over the same thing without being able to help them. They will certainly be thankful if you just allow them to “talk it out”, though. Maybe they're building up courage to take action, and need to convince (说服) themselves they're doing the right thing. Just being there for them may be all you have to do to make things better.
A. Friendship is the most important to us.
B. This is not actually useful for your friend.
C. So is it a good idea to try to give advice at all?
D. You can find someone else to ask for their ideas.
E. Sometimes a problem doesn't go away overnight.
F. Talking may make people feel better all by themselves.
G. Then you can go away and try to think of something helpful.
“What do you think I should do?” asks your friend, as she sits beside you, waiting for your advice. This is no easy situation. Say something your friend disagrees with or something helpless, and you might feel you've disappointed her.
It's human nature to want to offer solutions when someone comes to you with a problem. It's also easy to fall into the trap of simply saying that “Everything will be OK”. 1 But we often say that because we believe we need to say something. This is because we're glad that our friend has come to us for help, even if we don't really think we're able to give it. 2 The answer is yes... if it's done in the right way.
In fact, friends often really only want someone to listen to them. It's important to try to work out whether they're actually asking for advice, or simply wanting to talk over whatever is going round in their head. 3 There's no harm in asking whether they'd like you to give suggestions.
It's also important to be honest. If you're unable to think of a way to solve your friend's problem, just say so. Your friend won't feel upset, and you can still listen carefully and try to put yourself in their shoes. 4 You can ask yourself “What would I do if I were to experience the same thing?” Later you can go back to your friend with a few helpful suggestions.
5 It can be hard to listen to your friend going over and over the same thing without being able to help them. They will certainly be thankful if you just allow them to “talk it out”, though. Maybe they're building up courage to take action, and need to convince (说服) themselves they're doing the right thing. Just being there for them may be all you have to do to make things better.
A. Friendship is the most important to us.
B. This is not actually useful for your friend.
C. So is it a good idea to try to give advice at all?
D. You can find someone else to ask for their ideas.
E. Sometimes a problem doesn't go away overnight.
F. Talking may make people feel better all by themselves.
G. Then you can go away and try to think of something helpful.
答案：1—5 BCFGE
解析：
【分析】
这是一篇说明文类的七选五题型，解题时首先通读全文，明确文章核心主题是介绍朋友向你求助倾诉时，正确回应对方的合理方式。接下来逐空定位前后文的线索：首先关注特殊句式线索，比如第二空后出现“The answer is yes”，说明设空处必然是提出疑问的疑问句，可快速锁定对应选项；其余空重点梳理前后文的逻辑关系，包括对前文错误做法的评价、动作的先后顺序、段落主旨的呼应，逐一匹配选项排除干扰，最后代入全文通读验证逻辑是否通顺。
【解析】
1. 设空处前一句提到人们很容易陷入只会空泛说“一切都会好的”的误区，后一句转折说明我们常说这类话只是出于觉得自己必须开口的心理，B选项“这对你的朋友来说其实毫无用处”是对这类无效空泛安慰的客观评价，承上启下，符合语境。
2. 设空处后一句直接给出了“The answer is yes”的回应，说明设空处是一个提出疑问的一般疑问句，C选项“那么试图给出建议到底是不是个好主意呢？”刚好和后文的回答形成完美的问答呼应，衔接自然。
3. 设空处前一句点明，很多时候朋友找过来并非真的要解决方案，只是想要有人倾听，梳理自己脑海里的思绪，F选项“倾诉本身就会让人感觉好很多”承接前文“朋友想要倾诉”的核心内容，引出后文“主动询问对方是否需要建议也无妨”的表述，逻辑连贯。
4. 设空处前一句说明如果当下想不出解决朋友问题的思路直接告知对方即可，依然可以认真倾听换位思考，后一句提到你可以设想自己遭遇同样的事会如何应对，之后再带着有用的建议回到朋友身边，G选项“之后你可以先离开，试着想一些有帮助的思路”刚好承接前后的动作顺序，符合行文逻辑。
5. 设空处后一句提到，听朋友反复念叨同一件事却没法提供帮助是很难熬的，只要允许他们把心事全部说出来，对方就会心怀感激，E选项“有些问题不会一夜之间就消失”引出后文朋友反复诉说的合理性，契合本段主旨。
【答案】
1—5 BCFGE
【知识点】
七选五阅读，语篇逻辑衔接，语境推理
【点评】
本题选取贴近日常人际交往的话题，整体逻辑线索清晰，没有设置过难的干扰项，重点考察学生对说明文语篇中问答呼应、指代关系、动作先后顺序、主旨支撑类衔接关系的识别能力，解题时可以优先通过特殊句式等显性线索快速缩小选项范围，再结合语境验证即可。
【难度系数】
0.6
这是一篇说明文类的七选五题型，解题时首先通读全文，明确文章核心主题是介绍朋友向你求助倾诉时，正确回应对方的合理方式。接下来逐空定位前后文的线索：首先关注特殊句式线索，比如第二空后出现“The answer is yes”，说明设空处必然是提出疑问的疑问句，可快速锁定对应选项；其余空重点梳理前后文的逻辑关系，包括对前文错误做法的评价、动作的先后顺序、段落主旨的呼应，逐一匹配选项排除干扰，最后代入全文通读验证逻辑是否通顺。
【解析】
1. 设空处前一句提到人们很容易陷入只会空泛说“一切都会好的”的误区，后一句转折说明我们常说这类话只是出于觉得自己必须开口的心理，B选项“这对你的朋友来说其实毫无用处”是对这类无效空泛安慰的客观评价，承上启下，符合语境。
2. 设空处后一句直接给出了“The answer is yes”的回应，说明设空处是一个提出疑问的一般疑问句，C选项“那么试图给出建议到底是不是个好主意呢？”刚好和后文的回答形成完美的问答呼应，衔接自然。
3. 设空处前一句点明，很多时候朋友找过来并非真的要解决方案，只是想要有人倾听，梳理自己脑海里的思绪，F选项“倾诉本身就会让人感觉好很多”承接前文“朋友想要倾诉”的核心内容，引出后文“主动询问对方是否需要建议也无妨”的表述，逻辑连贯。
4. 设空处前一句说明如果当下想不出解决朋友问题的思路直接告知对方即可，依然可以认真倾听换位思考，后一句提到你可以设想自己遭遇同样的事会如何应对，之后再带着有用的建议回到朋友身边，G选项“之后你可以先离开，试着想一些有帮助的思路”刚好承接前后的动作顺序，符合行文逻辑。
5. 设空处后一句提到，听朋友反复念叨同一件事却没法提供帮助是很难熬的，只要允许他们把心事全部说出来，对方就会心怀感激，E选项“有些问题不会一夜之间就消失”引出后文朋友反复诉说的合理性，契合本段主旨。
【答案】
1—5 BCFGE
【知识点】
七选五阅读，语篇逻辑衔接，语境推理
【点评】
本题选取贴近日常人际交往的话题，整体逻辑线索清晰，没有设置过难的干扰项，重点考察学生对说明文语篇中问答呼应、指代关系、动作先后顺序、主旨支撑类衔接关系的识别能力，解题时可以优先通过特殊句式等显性线索快速缩小选项范围，再结合语境验证即可。
【难度系数】
0.6