解:$(1)$由题意,得$BA \perp AE。$
∵斜坡$BE$的坡度$i=1:\sqrt {3},$
∴在$\text{Rt}\triangle ABE$中,$\tan ∠BEA=\frac {AB}{AE}=\frac {1}{\sqrt {3}}=\frac {\sqrt {3}}{3},$
∴$∠BEA=30°。$
∵$BE=6 \text{m},$
∴$AB=\frac{1}{2}BE=3 \text{m}。$
答:点$B$离水平地面的高度$AB$为$3m。$
$ (2)$如图,过点$B$作$BF \perp CD,$垂足为$F,$则四边形$BACF $为矩形,
∴$AB=CF=3 \text{m},$$BF=AC。$
$ $设$EC=x \text{m}。$在$\text{Rt}\triangle ABE$中,$AE=BE ·\cos 30°=6×\frac{\sqrt{3}}{2}=3\sqrt{3} \text{m},$
∴$BF=AC=AE+CE=(x+3\sqrt{3}) \text{m}。$
$ $在$\text{Rt}\triangle CDE$中,$∠DEC=60°,$
∴$CD=CE ·\tan 60°=\sqrt{3}x \text{m}。$
$ $在$\text{Rt}\triangle BDF_{中},$$∠DBF=45°,$
$DF=BF ·\tan 45°=(x+3\sqrt{3}) \text{m}。$
∵$DF+CF=CD,$
∴$x+3\sqrt {3}+3=\sqrt {3}x,$解得$x=6+3\sqrt {3}。$
∴$CD=\sqrt{3}(6+3\sqrt{3})=6\sqrt{3}+9 \text{m}。$
答:电线塔$CD$的高度为$(6\sqrt{3}+9) \text{m}。$