证明:$(1)$∵四边形$ABCD $是矩形,
∴$AB = DC,$$∠ B=∠ C = 90°。$
∵$CF = BE,$
∴$BC - CF = BC - BE,$
∴$BF = CE。$
在$ △ABF $和$ △ DCE $中,
$\begin {cases}AB = DC\\∠ B=∠ C\\BF = CE\end {cases} $
∴$△ABF≌△ DCE(\mathrm {SAS})$
∴$AF = DE。$
$(2)$由$(1)$知$△ABF≌△DCE,$
∴$∠AFB=∠DEC。$
∵$∠AFB=∠OFE,$$∠DEC=∠OEF,$
∴$∠OFE=∠OEF,$
∴$OE=OF。$