证明:
(1) $\because$ 四边形$ABCD$是平行四边形,
$\therefore AD=CB,$$∠ A=∠ C,$$∠ ADC=∠ ABC。$
$\because DE$平分$∠ ADC,$$BF$平分$∠ ABC,$
$\therefore ∠ ADE=\frac{1}{2}∠ ADC,$$∠ CBF=\frac{1}{2}∠ ABC。$
$\therefore ∠ ADE=∠ CBF。$
在$△ ADE$和$△ CBF$中,
$\begin{cases}∠ A=∠ C, \\AD=CB, \\∠ ADE=∠ CBF,\end{cases}$
$\therefore △ ADE ≌ △ CBF。$$\therefore DE=BF$
(2) 连接$EF。$$\because$ 四边形$ABCD$是平行四边形,
$\therefore AB// CD,$$AB=CD。$
$\therefore ∠ BEF=∠ DFE。$
$\because DE// BF,$$\therefore ∠ BFE=∠ DEF。$
在$△ BEF$和$△ DFE$中,
$\begin{cases}∠ BEF=∠ DFE, \\EF=FE, \\∠ BFE=∠ DEF,\end{cases}$
$\therefore △ BEF ≌ △ DFE。$$\therefore BE=DF。$
$\therefore AB-BE=CD-DF,$即$AE=CF$
(3) 成立。
$\because$ 四边形$ABCD$是平行四边形,
$\therefore AD=CB,$$AB=CD,$$∠ A=∠ C。$
$\because BE=DF,$$\therefore AB-BE=CD-DF,$即$AE=CF。$
在$△ ADE$和$△ CBF$中,
$\begin{cases}AD=CB, \\∠ A=∠ C, \\AE=CF,\end{cases}$
$\therefore △ ADE ≌ △ CBF。$$\therefore DE=BF$