证明:$\because O$是$BD$的中点,$\therefore OB=OD.$
$\because DE// BF,\therefore ∠ DEO=∠ BFO.$
在$△ DEO$和$△ BFO$中,
$\begin{cases}∠ DEO=∠ BFO,\\∠ DOE=∠ BOF,\\OD=OB,\end{cases}$
$\therefore △ DEO≌△ BFO.$ $\therefore OE=OF.$
又$\because AE=CF,\therefore AE+OE=OF+CF,\therefore OA=OC.$
$\therefore$ 四边形$ABCD$是平行四边形