(2)解:$\because [-2,-5]$是$3(x-b)^2-4$的一组“等值元”,
$\therefore 3(-2-b)^2-4=3(-5-b)^2-4,$
解得$b=-\frac{7}{2}。$
(3)解:$\because [m,n]$是多项式$a(x-b)^2+c$的一组“等值元”,
$\therefore a(m-b)^2+c=a(n-b)^2+c,$
$\because m≠ n,$
$\therefore m-b=b-n,$即$m+n=2b。$
又$\because [m-2,t]$是多项式$a(x-b)^2+c$的“等值元”,
$\therefore a(m-2-b)^2+c=a(t-b)^2+c。$
$\because m+n=2b,$
$\therefore m=2b-n,$
$\therefore (2b-n-2-b)^2=(t-b)^2,$
即$(b-n-2)^2=(t-b)^2,$且$b-n-2≠ t-b,$
$\therefore b-n-2=b-t,$
$\therefore n-t=-2。$