解: 选择①$OA=OC,$理由如下:
$∵AD// BC,$
$∴∠ DAO = ∠ BCO。$
又$∵OA=OC,$且$∠ AOD = ∠ COB,$
在$△ DAO$与$△ BCO$中,
$\begin{cases} ∠ DAO = ∠ BCO \\ OA = OC \\ ∠ AOD = ∠ COB \end{cases}$
$∴△ DAO ≌ △ BCO,$
$∴AD = CB。$
若选择②$∠ ABC = ∠ CDA,$理由如下:
$∵AD// BC,$
$∴∠ DAO = ∠ BCO。$
又$∵∠ ABC = ∠ CDA,$
在$△ ADC$与$△ CBA$中,
$\begin{cases} ∠ DAO = ∠ BCO \\ ∠ CDA = ∠ ABC \\ AC = CA \end{cases}$
$∴△ ADC ≌ △ CBA,$
$∴AD = CB。$